So you're dealing with issues of your own heart,hearth,home or whatever it is that has made you forget your other responsibilities or other aspects of your regular life,dont forget that someone out there is waiting for you,for your response, for your revert. And you can never ever get away from that, more so if you are a parent.You will be on call 24/7 whether at work or at home or in your social setup.
Unless you have decided to become a recluse and not attend to anyone else,but yourself in your life.
Its tough to smile when your heart is pinning for a good deep crying spell, tougher still to be still,when your mind is wandering ,looking for solutions of a different nature that no one else can solve for you.
It is probably your loneliest moment,the toughest one where you dont think you can take it anymore. But that's probably the moment when you just have to hang in there.Thats the moment when you have to reach out , to your closest kin ( if you can know and trust who those are)...or find that courage within you that will lift you out of the bottom of the pit.
Yes, not everything in life is in our control. Not everything goes as we wished, not everything happens in the best way we had wanted.But it is still a consequence of a lot of choices we made,which seemed right at that time.A lot also happens due to our circumstances,that were thrust upon us or created by us.
What is being said here is not new or nothing that hasn't been said before or written before. But,it needs to be reiterated time and again.That is the challenge. That in those times,we tend to forget,we lose track.
The situation seems bigger than life itself. When in reality it isnt;cause life is bigger ,multi-dimensional and not unilateral like the situation that we are dealing with.
Yes,there are arguments like we may be dealing with more than 1 situation for example, boss is giving you a hard time, children are sick at home and the house-help's run out on you..And these are everyday life events, not even something bigger like a bereavement ,break-up or job-loss.
Yet, we have to be with it ,deal with it...Cause no one else will do it for us.Yes, it does get better.And on this one please take my word for it.
Happy Living!
Unless you have decided to become a recluse and not attend to anyone else,but yourself in your life.
Its tough to smile when your heart is pinning for a good deep crying spell, tougher still to be still,when your mind is wandering ,looking for solutions of a different nature that no one else can solve for you.
It is probably your loneliest moment,the toughest one where you dont think you can take it anymore. But that's probably the moment when you just have to hang in there.Thats the moment when you have to reach out , to your closest kin ( if you can know and trust who those are)...or find that courage within you that will lift you out of the bottom of the pit.
Yes, not everything in life is in our control. Not everything goes as we wished, not everything happens in the best way we had wanted.But it is still a consequence of a lot of choices we made,which seemed right at that time.A lot also happens due to our circumstances,that were thrust upon us or created by us.
What is being said here is not new or nothing that hasn't been said before or written before. But,it needs to be reiterated time and again.That is the challenge. That in those times,we tend to forget,we lose track.
The situation seems bigger than life itself. When in reality it isnt;cause life is bigger ,multi-dimensional and not unilateral like the situation that we are dealing with.
Yes,there are arguments like we may be dealing with more than 1 situation for example, boss is giving you a hard time, children are sick at home and the house-help's run out on you..And these are everyday life events, not even something bigger like a bereavement ,break-up or job-loss.
Yet, we have to be with it ,deal with it...Cause no one else will do it for us.Yes, it does get better.And on this one please take my word for it.
Happy Living!
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