So there is confusion and then there is chaos...none of which leave you feeling any better than you already do...
Confusion is about choices
Choices is about taking decisions
Decisions is about clarity
Clarity is about thought or thoughts
Thought is about confusion.
So if you have thoughts...you will have confusion and chaos...but what may-mind you the word is "may"-not lead to it is the fact that you can choose your thoughts.
You can or atleast may want to decide that what you want is peace and bliss; therefore it may be prudent to avoid negative or multiple instances of unfavorable thoughts.
So if you want a happier, confusion and chaos free life...simplifying matters that lead to lesser choices and options is one route that can be taken.
The other option is to be able to wait it out...be paitent.If you have that virtue in you or you can find that within you, to be able walk through the jungle till you reach the highway then it can lead to some fantastic revelations.
And then again this too can lead to making a choice. Do you give in to the chaos and confusion by letting it cut through you and make you a person you wouldnt recognise or would you be strong and keep your core intact in the face of it all?
These are vital choices that make or break you and your life.
I realise this post seems laden with cliches and has beens...but I have realised that in our quest to be different and stand out we seem more confused and hence sometimes it may be a wiser choice to live by the cliches sometimes. Finding and keeping your core in the midst of it all is not so much about living through cliches but more to do with living through the jungle and walk through the tunnel to find your highway with the lights on full beam.
On one of those rare evenings when I finished my work early ( or just forced myself out of my workplace),all I wanted was to share some coffee and conversations with my girlfriends. It was just one of those days when no one else from my circle of influence would do..No husband,no family, no colleagues...No one! Just like that there are moments when all I'd want is my girlfriends ( Sorry bouys!) I dont know what it is about sharing experiences and feelings with your closest friends,but it is deeply satisfying,like a boulder is lifted off the shoulders. Its not so much about meeting them everyday and sharing every tiny detail of your life with them,but there are things in your life that can only be expected to be understood by your girlfriends. Like a broken heart, like losing anything or anyone...yes,they do get it better than your husband/partner ,anyone. Your work frustrations, your mommy woes, your womanly wimps,your mood swings, your bad hair days! It takes a woman to ...
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